016 - Declutering for a calmer house - With Rebecca Jo Rushdy

Welcome back to \"Parenting the Intensity!\"Today on the podcast I welcome guest Rebeccas Jo Rushdy, Platinum Konmari Consultant and the Owner of Spark Joy & Flow where she guides fellow empaths to declutter and transform their hearts, minds and homes into sanctuaries that spark joy and flow!And that\'s what we talk about, decluttering to create a calmer and more peaceful space, but so much more too! We talk a lot on the relationship between clearing our house and parenting and how it help us, and our kids, learn so many great lessons. And don\'t worry, there\'s no space for shaming you if your house is a mess here! That\'s not what we are about at all!Key takeaways of this episode:1. The power of decluttering: We share our experience with decluttering and how it made a significant impact on our lives. We discuss the Konmari approche for decluttering, which incorporates positive psychology and gratitude to change our perspective on decluttering from fear to joy. It\'s all about learning the life skill of letting go and designing a peaceful life for ourselves and our families.2. Managing expectations: This means involving children in decision making and giving them agency, in decluttering but in so much more spaces in life too, which can help soften any shocks or surprises that may come their way.3. Connecting decluttering with parenting: We discuss how parents can involve their children in the decluttering process and create a sense of emotional readiness and safety for them to let go of things. And that doesn\'t just means stuff, but all sorts of things in life that we need to let go of.
\"We have to actually design life in a way that\'s peaceful for every family member because it\'s stressful for kids to be rushed as well.\"Show notes and transcript of the episode over hereWhere to find Rebecca:Spark Joy & FlowInstagramInsight TimerResources referenced by Rebecca:Marie Kondo\'s Website\'The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing\' by Marie KondoHighly Sensitive Parenthood Website
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